Cross Cultural Dates

Cross Cultural Dates are like Apple Pies with Cream. They could give an everlasting flavor for an affable relationship, better, the generation to follow is generally to be born with a smarter gene, courtesy, a rare hybrid of the two. Cities have become more multicultural in recent years. People from different backgrounds, including religious, racial and cultural backgrounds are all living together in many large environments.
I have often been amazed with the current cross country / cross cultural relationships that have been mushrooming of late. Do we get to think, the conservatism & the mindset of the current generation is taking a paradigm shift? I think certainly so. Not long ago, a South American marrying a British was dubbed a"Geek". Today he is branded "Brilliant", maybe tommorrow it could prove to be a spark in the generation next's funda. Seduction & Compassion have become words beyond ethnics, language & color. Well, it should have been so for long, but the mental block in the social communities have often invaded personal priorities keeping the idealogy of the "centric human will" to the bay. Today its just burst out and the lava could soon spread the world. Going beyond cultural dates, I also question the democracy part of the cross cultural relationships, more so, after the relationships take a turn to be assigned a moral value called "Wedding". This bond and the relationship henceforth often come as a vibe within. Incidentally, I am also a very strong supporter of like minded companions being together in life. They may be friends/married life partners/ or even distant strangers or pen pals who look to strike upon a conversation understanding commonalities. I live to this day, believing happiness is this. Being with the people you are happy with. This could be offending to many, I may have to defend the world and social circles with ambigous reasons to comfort them, but the truth is, every living being is bonded with a special "She" or a special "He", this might not necessarily be your life partner or your best friend. This is true and true to the last degree. Similarily in cross cultural relationships, I have always noticed a active and a passive partner. If you observe this closely, you will always find this true. When one is bubbly, the other has to be the not "so" category. Living life fully can only come from within as internal happiness is directly proportionate to the state of the mind. A Happy moment for some may become a sad one. An elusive state of mind is often the question of happiness! What you think, is what becomes a thought and a thought becomes a web of analysis for the mind to be corrupt. Hence living life purely depends on the relationships you have, spend and spare. Loving mother, compassionate friends, understanding relatives and caring partners call for serenity. Whilst this is absent in the cross cultural/cross country relationships, the bond between the 2 becomes larger than the circle by itself, hence bringing relationships and values bound between the two. I am also still confused on the grounds of principles & living. I always believed that living and the principles of life are strongly determinded by the family and how they nurture. Understanding to love and to love and understand are relative sides of absolute living, which on long term could be questioned! Hence how could this be a parallel relationship. Now comes a question of compromise. Willing to adapt and change as often mutually becomes a king pin in the cross country/cross cultural relationships. If this is void, the turn could be a hair pin bend. The question of human right somtimes takes larger than life size images, and then ego and skepticism grow leaps and bounds affecting the fundamental relationship of the two i.e Love and love each other.